As if on cue; the town derelict went past our table; stopping by the large rubbish can and rummaging around in it。 The three of us watched him with great interest; when before we probably would have just ignored him。
Rich dad pulled a dollar out of his wallet and gestured to the older man。 Seeing the money; the derelict came over immediately; took the bill; thanked rich dad profusely and hurried off ecstatic with his good fortune。
〃Hes not much different from most of my employees;〃 said rich dad。 〃Ive met so many people who say; ‘Oh; Im not interested in money。 Yet theyll work at a job for eight hours a day。 Thats a denial of truth。 If they werent interested in money; then why are they working? That kind of thinking is probably more psychotic than a person who hoards money。〃
As I sat there listening to my rich dad; my mind was flashing back to the countless times my own dad said; 〃Im not interested in money。〃 He said those words often。 He also covered himself by always saying; 〃I work because I love my job。〃
〃So what do we do?〃 I asked。 〃Not work for money until all traces of fear and greed are gone?〃
〃No; that would be a waste of time;〃 said rich dad。 〃Emotions are what make us human。 Make us real。 The word ‘emotion stands for energy in motion。 Be truthful about your emotions; and use your mind and emotions in your favor; not against yourself。〃
〃Whoa!〃 said Mike。
〃Dont worry about what I just said。 It will make more sense in years to e。 just be an observer; not a reactor; to your emotions。 Most people do not know that its their emotions that are doing the thinking。 Your emotions are your emotions; but you have got to learn to do your own thinking。〃
〃Can you give me an example?〃 I asked。
〃Sure;〃 replied rich dad。 〃When a person says; ‘I need to find a job; its most likely an emotion doing the thinking。 Fear of not having money generates that thought。〃
〃But people do need money if they have bills to pay;〃 I said。
〃Sure they do;〃 smiled rich dad。 〃All Im saying is that its fear that is all too often doing the thinking。〃
〃I dont understand;〃 said Mike。
〃For example;〃 said rich dad。 〃If the fear of not having enough money arises; instead of immediately running out to get a job so they can earn a few bucks to kill the fear; they instead might ask themselves this question。 ‘Will a job be the best solution to this fear over the long run? In my opinion; the answer is ‘no。 Especially when you look over a persons lifetime。 A job is really a short…term solution to a long…term problem。〃
〃But my dad is always saying; ‘Stay in school; get good grades; so you can find a safe; secure job。 I spoke out; somewhat confused。
〃Yes; I understand he says that;〃 said rich dad; smiling。 〃Most people remend that; and its a good idea for most people。 But people make that remendation primarily out of fear。〃
〃You mean my dad says that because hes afraid?〃
〃Yes;〃 said rich dad。 〃Hes terrified that you wont be able to earn money and wont fit into society。 Dont get me wrong。 He loves you and wants the best for you。 And I think his fear is justified。 An education and a job are important。 But it wont handle the fear。 You see; that same fear that makes him get up in the morning to earn a few bucks is the fear that is causing him to be so fanatical about you going to school。〃
〃So what do you remend?〃 I asked。
〃I want to teach you to master the power of money。 Not be afraid of it。 And they dont teach that in school。 If you dont learn it; you bee a slave to money。〃
It was finally making sense。 He did want us to widen our views。 To 。 see what Mrs。 Martin could not see; his employees could not see; or my dad for that matter。 He used examples that sounded cruel at the time; but Ive never forgotten them。 My vision widened that day; and I could begin to see the trap that lay ahead for most people。
〃You see; were all employees ultimately。 We just work at different levels;〃 said rich dad。 〃I just want you boys to have a chance to avoid the trap。 The trap caused by those two emotions; fear and desire。 Use them in your favor; not against you。 Thats what I want to teach you。 Im not interested in just teaching you to make a pile of money。 That wont handle the fear or desire。 If you dont first handle fear and desire; and you get rich; youll only be a high…paid slave。〃
〃So how do we avoid the trap?〃 I asked。
〃The main cause of poverty or financial struggle is fear and ignorance; not the economy or the government or the rich。 Its selfinflicted fear and ignorance that keeps people trapped。 So you boys go to school and get your college degrees。 Ill teach you how to stay out of the trap。〃
The pieces of the puzzle were appearing。 My highly educated dad had a great education and a great career。 But school never told him how to handle money or his fears。 It became clear that I could learn different and important things from two fathers。
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